A man to stand beside you

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am sports minded but not a fanatic (although baseball is very close). I do like to play golf and softball but never seem to find the time. I also enjoy bowling. I love the beach and sipping margarita's while the sun goes down. I enjoy all kinds of music (even some country). I love the mid 80's alternative stuff and I am a big Springsteen fan. What do you expect; I'm from NJ. I enjoy going out for nice dinners, having a bottle of wine and perhaps going to a club but I also like ordering some Chinese (the food, not the people) and then cuddling in bed while watching some old movies. My Kids, my family and my friends are very important to me...perhaps you fit in here, too. As you can tell (if you got this far), I try not to take things too seriously. Life is too short. But I do take the love of my children very seriously...and the love of a woman (that may sound corny but I couldn't think of another way to put it). Yes I am 43 but I really don't look it. Do I ?

Sign

Taurus

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Lips

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Bird, Gerbil Or Guinea Pig

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

counselor

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Kid(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Sports, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Drinking, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

I guess the perfect date is one that leads to a second date. A nice relaxed atmosphere where we can be ourselves and not feel like everything we say is being scrutinized. Enjoy a nice meal and a bottle of wine (or a beer). I'm easy though and would be open to any suggestions. I also thought that I would like a real long first date but I am beginning to question that idea. perhaps a short "meet and greet" is better. This way we are not "stuck" on a 4 hour date if the other is not what we thought. Maybe an hour or two at the most and then we get to go home and evaluate the night and the person. If it's right...that 2nd date will be happening real soon.

I've Always Wanted To Try

skydiving

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

...to get through it with as little damage as possible

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Family, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

A nice relaxed atmosphere where we can be ourselves and not feel like everything we say is being scrutinized. Enjoy a nice meal and a bottle of wine (or a beer). I'm easy though and would be open to any suggestions.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Let's see...what am I looking for? Well, a sense of humor is always a good place to start. I like to laugh and make those around me find the humor in themselves and in life. I use to say "you should probably look like Jennifer Anniston because as you can see, I look like Brad Pitt" but I guess now you should look like Angelina Jolie... Seriously, I do want to feel a physical attraction but so many of you don't post your pictures that I have had to look for other attractive qualities. I guess that's a good thing but a pic is a must before we meet. I am looking for someone who is as comfortable in a black evening gown as she is in a pair of cut-offs and one of my shirts. Someone who can sip champagne or chug a Coke (and burp). Someone who wants to enjoy life and not sweat the details or those things we have no control over. Mostly, I want to fall in love again...oops, did I say that?...well, isn't that why we are all here? I'm not looking to date the rest of my life. Can you imagi

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed