Lets Take it Slow

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Hey there! I'm a laid-back guy interested in leading a meeting a woman who is willing to ease into a new relationship. I'm open and accepting and you will find me the least judgemental person you've ever met. I won't try to change you and I will expect the same.

People who don't know me often miss my attempts to be humorous, yet I have always thought of myself as having a good sense of humor. I guess I'm too obscure or not obvious enough. (Note to self: telegraph the humorous stuff from now on with a blatant announcement like "here comes the joke.")

OK, here it is: if you're looking for a quick connect or someone easy to get into, move on. I have a hard shell, but a gentle and loving nature on the inside. Its all about trust, acceptance and honesty for me. I can promise you honesty and acceptance from me, but I'm afraid you'll have to earn the trust through your own honesty and acceptance.

I can't really pin down my interests for you, they change regularly. Prior to 9/11 I was a regular sports junkie. I still follow the major sports and am a fan of the Yankees, Mets, Giants and Jets. However, my life has changed significantly since that event and I have become more spiritually attuned and more politically aware as a result of 9/11. I still like to relax and have fun, but I'm looking to meet people who can find as much enjoyment in intellectual conversations as in watching the Yankees beat the Red Sox or exploring quirky independent films or oddball TV shows.

I love movies, but hate Hollywood. I am a bigtime movie-watcher and my tastes run strongly in the direction of independent films, cult classics, film noire and the like.

I am an avid reader - read every day. My recent interests have been more non-fiction/history/politics. When I read fiction I usually don't care for contemporary writers and prefer the "classics", but I have recently been reading Philip Roth.

I love music, but with eclectic leanings. My musical interests range from Frank Sinatra to Frank Zappa, and from Miles Davis to the Clash, from Van Morrison to Fiona Apple, from Bjork to the Who.

I work full-time, make decent money, but work is not my life.

I have two boys - ages 12 and 15 - who live with me part-time. They are the two greatest people on the face of this earth (I say with modesty).

For better or worse, that's me.

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Green

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Separated

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Other

My Hair Is

Bald

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Politics / Government

My Job Title Is

claims rep

I Make This Much In A Year

$75,000USD To $99,999USD

I Live

Alone, With Kid(s), With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Reading, Learning, Tv, Movies, Games, Family

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Staying At Home, The Movies, Reading A Book, Tv

An Ideal First Date Would Be

quiet, casual, conversational, let's get to know each other

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Obscure

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Very Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

to slowly peel the veneer off of the material world to get a little peek at what lies behind it

My Kind Of Humor Is

Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Jazz

When I Read, I Always Read

Classic, Fiction, History, Philosophy, Political

My Idea Of Fun Is

Stimulating conversations on politics, philosophy, spirituality, film2, books, sports.

I like exploring obscure idependent films.

I read daily - fiction and non-fiction novels, political magazines, newspapers.

I watch more TV that I would like to admit. A lot of news, history channel, some sports, some comedies.

My idea of fun would be to find someone who I can share these activities with.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness

What Do You Look For?

I am looking to meet a woman who shares some of my interests in conversation, films, reading, some sports and TV, and is open to establishing a firendship that could develope into something more over time.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend